Pat Zaby's
DIGITAL EDGE FOR REALTORS
Strategies that keep your clients coming back—and referring more. Tips and tools to strengthen your real estate connections.

Your Personal Network is Your Best Asset
Monday, May 12, 2025

Real estate agents thrive on a steady stream of clients, and prospecting is the lifeblood of their business. While there are numerous ways to attract buyers and sellers, one method stands out as particularly effective and efficient: leveraging one's sphere of influence (SOI).

The Power of Your Sphere of Influence

Your sphere of influence consists of friends, family, neighbors, and acquaintances who already know and trust you. This network offers several advantages over other prospecting methods:

  1. Lower competition: Unlike cold leads, your SOI is less likely to be targeted by other agents.
  2. Cost-effective: Nurturing existing relationships is generally less expensive than acquiring new leads.
  3. Higher conversion rates: People are more likely to do business with someone they know and trust.

Building a Lifetime of Business

Focusing on your SOI isn't just about immediate transactions; it's about cultivating relationships that can yield business throughout your career:

  1. Initial business: Your first clients often come from your existing network.
  2. Repeat business: Satisfied clients from your SOI are more likely to return for future transactions.
  3. Referrals: A well-nurtured SOI becomes a powerful source of referrals.

Establishing Trust and Loyalty

To maximize the potential of your SOI, you need to position yourself as a trusted real estate expert by providing educational content about all aspects of homeownership and market trends that will transcend buying and selling.

Share valuable information through:

  • Newsletters
  • Social media posts
  • Blog articles
  • Webinars or video content
  • Phone calls
  • Customer appreciation events & opportunities

This approach demonstrates your expertise and keeps you top-of-mind.

Host Customer Appreciation Events bring value to your SOI, such as:

  • Home maintenance workshops
  • Local market update seminars
  • Community gatherings

These events strengthen personal connections and showcase your commitment to your clients' well-being.

Maintain Personal Contact

Regular, personalized communication is crucial:

  • Birthday and holiday greetings
  • Check-in calls or messages
  • Coffee meetups or casual visits

These touchpoints reinforce your relationship and keep you informed about potential real estate needs.

By consistently nurturing your SOI, you:

  1. Establish yourself as the go-to real estate resource
  2. Build trust in your abilities and knowledge
  3. Maintain top-of-mind awareness

This strategy ensures that when someone in your network needs real estate services or knows someone who does, you're the first person they think of.

While there are many ways to prospect in real estate, focusing on your sphere of influence offers a unique combination of efficiency, effectiveness, and long-term potential. By providing value, maintaining regular contact, and positioning yourself as a trusted expert, you can turn your personal network into a sustainable source of business throughout your career. Remember, in real estate, your relationships are your most valuable asset.  Check out InTouch Systems to see how much of this can be automated for you to free your time for what you do best.

National Trainer Pat Zaby

Pat Zaby is a distinguished leader in the real estate industry, serving as a charter member of the Residential Real Estate Council (RRC) and a past national president. With a career spanning over five decades, he has been a senior instructor since 1983, earning recognition as a national speaker, author, and developer.

His extensive contributions have established him as a respected authority in the field. As the co-owner of InTouch Systems, a digital marketing company, Pat continues to provide valuable insights and resources to real estate professionals, helping them thrive in an ever-evolving market.

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Achievements

  • Lifetime Achievement Award 2024 – Residential Real Estate Council
  • Over 200 articles published in national real estate periodicals
  • Senior instructor for the Residential Real Estate Council
  • Convention speaker at the NAR® and numerous franchise and state associations of REALTORS® for over 25 years
  • Past President, Residential Real Estate Council
  • Past President - REALTORS® National Marketing Institute®
  • Recipient of Omega Tau Rho, National Association of REALTORS®
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